The following results are from real people who have saved their marriage or overcome specific problems in their marriage through Larry Bilotta’s Environment Changer program. (Some students enroll in the program for self improvement rather than marital reasons.)
These are 100% genuine comments that were copied directly from each individual’s email to Larry. All of the following individuals have given us full consent to reproduce their comments on this site.
“I have received good help from my counselor tracking down childhood issues—but the Environment Changer way is much less complicated and direct. It’s as if good counselors SORT OF know what is in the Environment Changer course—but they don’t know ALL of it.
Our marriage counselor recognized the evil going on but when I asked for a plan or strategy, he sadly said, “Until your husband starts talking and revealing truth to someone, there isn’t anything for you to do.” But my stubborn self wasn’t going to quit, and I thank God I found this course. Interestingly, the same counselor gave me Dan Allender’s book The Healing Path, the theme of which could be called “Don’t waste the pain.” Again, experienced counselor…kinda, sorta sees things, but not completely.
Over the past year, I have probably read 25 books and done 7 online courses, and have seen one counselor, one marriage counselor, and one wise pastor. From them, I have been given pieces of what I have gotten out of this course—pieces I have put to good use—but this course has put the puzzle pieces together into something that makes sense to me.”
Elizabeth - Missouri
“Hi Larry, Greetings…life is good…I have been happily living my EC life, creating all the things I wanted…New job. New body. New just about everything…like the song says “new attitude”!!!
If anyone would have told me how my life and marriage would look 20 months ago, I would have told them they were nuts.
If I was told I could be who I am today, 12 months ago, I would have laughed even harder. And if I was told that my husband would be taking care of me with an injured knee, I would have said “That’s never gonna happen”.
But sure enough, this man who wanted to get rid of me 20 months ago, came to the doctor’s office for my first stressful orthopedic visit. He shows up and I’m full of pain meds and steroids. Nice combo yes. After the doctor visit I now had a knee brace, injections every 3 months and a cane when needed.
Then he took me to dinner and told how we have been really good together the last few weeks. (WOW he realizes that because the fog is lifting from his mind thanks to the internal work I’ve been doing on his behalf for the last few weeks. He has been speaking in sentences using words like “we”, “us” rather than me or you.
After dinner I ask him if he could get 2 things for me before he drives me home – dog food and fruit. What does he come back with? Both! But he also added that he put a special item in there for me.
He’s bursting with pride and says enthusiastically, “Check out the fruit!” I say thanks before looking & then I see it. A perfect RED pear….which he knows I love. My husband is amazing…for him, this is a gift of true friendship and unconditional love. He went out of his way to find this for me. Things like this are happening every week because I’ve become an Environment Changer and I know how to win back my man.
It is so super exciting to be an Environment Changer because you can simply create anything you want…and sure enough, I am! Thanks so much Larry. Cheers.”
“Hi Larry, I just wanted to thank you from the bottom of my heart for giving me the tools to save my husband, turn my son around, and live a more loving, giving life. Seeing the change in them is amazing. I knew my husband needed me…I knew it deep in my soul when he left the first time. What I didn’t know is how much I needed him to grow and change into this new man.
I used to be worried about the detachment I was starting to feel, like I didn’t care or “settling” for a man that would be closed off and unfaithful. I now realize it’s me finally letting go of all that “stuff” and seeing him for the man he truly is…a man whose internal struggle is so great. I will save him thanks to you. His eyes sparkle more, he’s giving me compliments again and was creative in choosing a Christmas gift for me this year…first time in a long time.
You started me in this journey of knowledge. I’m like a sponge and continue to read and practice and grow. I will never go back.”
Much love, Tina
“What can you personally expect to acquire and benefit in this EC program?
When it is all said (and Larry continues to say it), as it is never done, is that as we come out of our darkness and rise above in every relationship to reach a hand out and be the stronghold that others NEED.
We become the one that stands strong in the middle of any emotional storm. We become an example of the secure parent, maybe one that we’ve never been or never had. Or we become the son or daughter that respects and honors their parents, and mostly the CALM, patient spouse who is willing to believe we are the ONE who is the most dependable, loving, kind and supportive partner that can create a love that never demands things in return or is following her heart to remain the “Needed” one.
Being able to be the one who is willing to always choose happiness over being “right”. Becoming the wife who can choose enjoyment over criticism and perfection, encouragement and forgiveness over accusation. The wife who can see the GOLD instead of the ROCKS.
This is what I have come to realize Larry is asking his students to become. It’s taken me 14 months to put this into a simple explanation. No amount of appreciation would match how thankful I feel about Larry’s commitment to a life-long mission to find a way to rise above the chaos and bring others with him. Thanks again Larry! (And Marsha) ”
|Tom and Karen had the odds stacked against them. For Tom, this was his SECOND marriage and for Karen, it was her THIRD.As a couple, they invested THOUSANDS of dollars in marriage counseling, therapists and other programs only “gain a tiny bit of help on occasion” as Tom puts it…Click the play buttons below to hear how Tom and Karen’s marriage changed after they completed the Environment Changer program.
“Through the Environment Changer program, Tom learned how to identify and overcome the programs he received from his father when he was young. These “anger programs” were causing Tom to overpower Karen and dominate the marriage. Tom learned how to separate these programs from who he really is at heart so he can stop them from destroying the marriage.
Tom stated that of all the marriage help he’s sought out, he found the Environment Changer program to be profound, unique and overall the most powerful thing he has done after spending thousands of dollars on other programs and therapists.”
Tom from Raleigh, North Carolina
Karen saw DRAMATIC results in both her and her husband’s lives that she wasn’t able to achieve with traditional marriage counseling and other marriage help.
Karen from Raleigh, North Carolina
Mike’s wife was adamant about divorce and she was ready and willing to move on. Because of this disturbing news, Mike was an emotional wreck and as a result, he pushed his wife even FURTHER away from him. Today, Mike’s wife is now talking about future plans in their life TOGETHER, rather than preparing for her new life AFTER divorce….in just 1 month, his wife has shifted her mind set from “it’s over”…to “give me some time to think thinks through”.
Today, because Mike knows the secrets of becoming an Environment Changer, he can finally think clearly, and in just 1 month, his wife has shifted her mind set from “it’s over”…to “give me some time to think thinks through”.
For Mike, this was an exciting step in the right direction because his wife is very stubborn and set in her ways. As Mike puts it, his wife has “NEVER changed her mind in their 16 years of being together.”
Mike from Montreal, Canada
Josh from Houston, Texas was separated from his wife for 6 months and discovered that she had filed for divorce.
Josh from Houston, Texas was separated from his wife for 6 months and discovered that she had filed for divorce on December 23rd of 2008.
When John discovered his wife had filed for divorce, he began suffering from depression. After practicing the course of action defined in the Environment Changer program for just two months, John’s wife Christy noticed a significant difference in him.
Today, as of August 3rd, 2010, John and his wife Christy are now actively in the process of reconciling the marriage!
Josh from Houston, Texas
Jill was within moments of committing SUICIDE after a childhood of abuse and an adulthood of painful memories and heavy medication. After just the fourth call in the program, Jill remembers having an epiphany and waking up the next morning with HOPE, something she had lived her entire life without.
Jill was within moments of committing suicide. She had written her goodbye letters and as she puts it, she was ready to “sign off”.
Jill sought out numerous therapists who prescribed pill after pill, medicating her for most of her adult life. Jill was severely depressed over the traumatic and emotionally devastating childhood abuse she endured from her father.
Then she hit a new low when her infant son died.
Jill felt she failed her husband, failed herself and instantly felt her father’s words telling her she was no-good and worthless. She felt she was a bad woman and a bad mother.
At that point Jill began “losing it”. To make matters worse, Jill broke her neck as a result of a previous abuse from years ago.
After suffering from a painful neck injury, enduring extensive surgery and being heavily medicated with pain pills, Jill lost all hope. She tormented her husband until he left and at this point, Jill sought out help from Larry Bilotta through his Environment Changer program.
Though Jill describes herself as a highly skeptical woman, she gave the program a chance and after just the fourth call in the program, she remembers having an epiphany and waking up the next morning with hope, something she had lived her entire life without.
The following day it was the same thing and suddenly she realized she was smiling. Jill suddenly stopped taking all the pills, she no longer suffered from asthma attacks and still hasn’t had one to this day because she no longer lives with the black cloud that clung to her life for so long.
It has been one year since she began the program and still to this day, Jill wakes up every day happy – even when she knows there will be challenges ahead – because the insights she learned in the program have now become second nature.
Emotional intelligence literally gave Jill the happiness that 25 years of therapy told her was NOT possible.
Jill from California
Marco Pezutti from Australia no longer feels depressed and has lost 6 1/2 lbs in 1 week because he learned to transform himself through the Environment Changer program!
“My name is Marco Pezzutti. I am an Italian living in Sydney Australia. I am 45 years old, an IT professional and I have two young children. Ten months ago my wife announced she wanted a divorce. I was devastated. I had to move back in with my parents. My life spiraled out of control and I became very angry, had huge headaches and cried a lot. I had to go on anti depressants and started seeing a psychologist every week. My weight ballooned to 98 kg, from my usual weight of 87kg.
I was a nervous wreck and couldn’t concentrate because of my deep depression. I found Larry Bilotta’s site, and began his program. Within my fourth call with him, my emotional state began to improve. After I finished his Environment Changer course, I am calmer and rediscovered who I really am. I see life through a different perspective that changed how I feel every day. Even my psychologist even asked, “What book are you reading?” I just answered with a big grin on my face. I train harder at the gym now because I’m happy. All I say to friends who ask is, do your family and yourself a favour and get through the Environment Changer course. Change how you see yourself. As Roman Emperor Cicero said it, “the greatest society we have is our family”. Let’s nourish it by being the good person we really are at heart.”
Marco Pezzutti, Environment Changer
After just 2 years of marriage, Carrie felt miserable and unfulfilled – a shell of her former self. Just 5 months ago, Carrie was talking to divorce attorneys thinking that was her only option. Today she is still married and once again feels a sense of confidence, joy, energy, faith and hope. But best of all, Carrie sees her husband becoming the kind of spouse she knew he could be – and he has not changed one bit.
Carrie from Orange County, California has now found the confidence to return to school. Married for just 2 years, Carrie sought out help after “losing herself” just a year in a half into her marriage.
She felt miserable and unfulfilled in her marriage.
Carrie felt that she needed to suffer through her marriage or RUN , but what she really wanted was for her husband to start meeting her emotional needs. The problem was, she didn’t know how to motivate him to do it.
The more she tried, the more she drove her husband away. Carrie began a self loathing cycle after realizing her marriage wasn’t anything like what she had wanted it to be. Instead of building each other up, they were tearing each other apart.
Carrie felt like a complete failure until one day she didn’t even recognize herself anymore. She remembered being vibrant, energetic and cheerful, but when she looked in the mirror what she saw was a shell of her former self, just weighted down with hopelessness and despair.
Five months prior to this recording, since Carrie’s husband wouldn’t consider counseling, she sought out help from Larry Bilotta. Today she believes she is an even better person than she was BEFORE she got married.
Carrie now has her confidence back along with her joy, energy, faith and hope. Carrie used to accept that highs and lows were just a part of life, but now realizes that YOU can control how you feel and take back the power by making conscious choices.
Though her husband currently isn’t interested in any kind of counseling, Carrie is still married which she believes to be a miracle since five months ago, she was talking to several divorce attorneys thinking that was her only option.
Carrie now sees her husband making progress in becoming the kind of spouse she knew he could be – and he has not changed one bit.
Because Carrie can now control her “inner world” as she puts it, she can now influence everyone else around her and believes that her whole life has been transformed.
Carrie from Orange County, California
Michelle saw differences 4 weeks into the program with her husband. He is opening up again, responding and beginning to trust her as he sees the calm, loving woman he married come back more and more each day.She has also implemented the tools of the program on her older teen who is now calmer, more open and loving with her and the family. She is seeing more healthy, normal moments as they did years ago.
I started this program in February. The biggest change I’ve seen is in myself and my home. I have a calmer, more loving, supportive home for my children which I pay attention to creating each day. This in turn is evident when my husband stops by every weekend. I saw differences about 4 weeks into the program with my husband. He ping-pongs as to what he wants, but I noticed him talking more to me and responding more to me and my inquiries into his hard day (he works 60+ hours a week). He is slowly opening up again as he starts to trust I am the calm, loving wife he married who respects and values him.
Before the program we had an “ideal marriage for about 8 years” but we’d fight one to two times a year. When his “blow ups” started happening more and more, I didn’t understand he was communicating his needs to me under this guise of anger. Now I know how to listen and to meet his needs, and I’ve started seeing him and all the good he brings into our daily lives, all the ways I can support him again, all the changes I am working on having so he will come home to a wife and family he deserves- a wife who respects his needs, values his sacrifices and treats him as the king of his castle again. I in turn will have the life I want because I’ve created it.
I am also working with my older teen who is now calmer, more open and more loving with us all. Especially the last few weeks (about 3 months into the program). We now have more and more healthy, normal moments as we did a few years ago.
The most important thing for me is giving thanks for every little moment, having gratitude for all I’ve been given in life, and praying. I use the saw and stamp and love movies and I transurf all kinds of things happening. I’ve transurfed calls from my husband, a present from him, a coffee date, even extra money being found! I am working on bigger items such as his return home and know it will happen in God’s time, with the work and commitment I do each day. I am still working on learning more about transurfing and handling the contrast manipulation as I’ve had some fast success.
This is a commitment. It is a lifestyle change because you recognize that you have something in you to change before you can be the person anybody else desires. This is about saving your spouse, your family, your world…and you have to understand you didn’t get here over night, and you do have the power to change your life.
Michelle from Long Beach, California
Sandra was introduced to the program by her brother who transformed his life after experiencing a nervous breakdown, the loss of his wife and 2 of his 3 children. Sandra enrolled in the program because she wanted freedom from her pain just like her brother experienced.
Read Sandra’s heartfelt story below about how she transformed her life from being angry, hateful and against everyone to enjoying a new found freedom from her negative emotions where she enjoys waking up everyday, feeling like a new person. Sandra, her husband and children were once at the brink of severely breaking down, but today, they are finally at peace as a family.
I started this program back in March of 2010. i was introduced to it from by brother. I knew there was something inside of me that was making me angry and against everyone. I thought this was normal because I didn’t know any other way.
I got married in 1992 to a man of my dreams! We had 4 children a year after our marriage and every 2 years after that. Life became very busy and my whole life was different. I was responsible for so many peoples lives. I have to say both my husband and myself are type A people. We both are perfectionists. We both are very sensitive. It was very soon into the marriage that we had problems. We were always against each other. I had come from a family that was taught to be against one another, I have 3 siblings. My older two siblings and I were always against each other. We were taught to be judging. We were judged everyday growing up. Everyone was always not good enough. I had this program inside of me. I was against everyone! I had no peace in my heart.
I battled with this for all my life until I was 44 years old. I have gone in and out of therapy. I had no problem admitting my faults to therapists because I wanted to get better so badly. The list was so long. I had an eating disorder bulimia first anorexia after. I had a drinking problem. I had a compulsive cleaning problem etc… Nothing ever changed though, I still had all the same problems and was still angry all the time. It was at this time my brother was going through his own problems with his life. He shut us all off (his family of origin). No one knew what was going on with him but we knew there were problems in his marriage. Through him having a breakdown he had a breakthrough.
He found his way back to my parents and eventually his siblings. Him and I were only close when I was very little about 5. Not long after we had a HATE HATE relationship. I am not kidding it was a terrible relationship. I resented him for years and my parents as well because he could do no wrong in their eyes. I was always afraid, afraid to be judged, there was always someone there ready to catch me and turn me in. I lived in fear. I never could use my voice bc I would be punished for it. I had to lie about everything i did and who I was with. I could never do right by my parents. My brother was allowed to treat me anyway he wanted to. He was more strict with me then my father. However i never felt it was from concern. I always felt like everyone’s punching bag.
When my brother came back to the family I saw him in a very different light. He was not the same person I knew him to be. I was curious. I was not yet trusting of him because I wasn’t sure it was real. As time went by him and I were brought together. I believe it was Gods plan. He told me that because of Larry he was able to go back to my father for a relationship.
Little by little I would get more parts from him and his journey. He shared everything that was working for him. He was in a position where he lost his wife, 2 children out of 3, all his finances and everyone around him.
He found Larry out of his desperation. Because of Larry’s course and tools and God my brother was saved. I never would of described him as someone who had empathy or others. He too had this evil disease called JUDGING OTHERS. I saw that lifted. I saw him asking for forgiveness. I saw him giving back what he had learned helping anyone who may be broken. He reached me!
I signed up for Larry’s course back in March 2010. I worked hard at it. I wanted to be where my brother was so badly and so quickly. However for me it wasn’t as fast as I hoped it would have been. It wasn’t until this past January that i had been AWAKENED. My husband had left on a tuesday for about the 3rd time. we would have these big blowouts. He would always come back, but this time it was different.
I went to him 2 days after asking him to come back only to find out he was very angry this time and didn’t want me near him. I had gone out with my oldest son Anthony who is 19 and asked him to help me find where his dad was staying. We showed up at a local hotel and knocked on the door. He was not at all happy to see him. I left there broken. I went home, I wanted to kill myself.
I couldn’t stand going through the pain anymore, I really was exhausted and felt no matter what I tried to do I was still the same evil Sandra. My 3 older children were in my bedroom with me. They wouldn’t leave my side. My son Austin who is 15 was with me like glue for the entire time his dad had left.
He LOVED his father and me too but he must have felt my weakness and was afraid for me. My one daughter and I were fighting horribly. It was the same relationship i had seen with my mother my older sister and my father. I felt like it was my husband and my daughter Arielle that were against me.
I always thought they were planning behind my back, that was my FREDDY (i.e. what Larry refers to in the course as my negative thoughts). Because of this I did not trust either one of them. You see they were similar. They were both Strong, controlling people who would take over whatever I thought or felt. Where my other boys were sensitive, quiet and would just go along for peace.
Anyways it was around 11:30 pm. I remember calling my brother and telling him its over I cannot go on another day like this. He did tell me i was overly tired and needed much sleep but he was scared of what I would do. My oldest son Anthony who is always quiet in the background must have gotten very scared. He phoned a close friend of mine to come over.
Linda showed up and she told me the next day she couldn’t believe my children were all right there and how much love she saw they had for me including Arielle whom i had been fighting so badly with. I eventually fell asleep I think I took a tylenol pm. The next morning (Friday)Arielle came into my room and said “Dads on the phone”. It was around 5 am. He asked me to come see him. I didn’t know what to expect since the night before he had rejected me.
It was at this time in my car I HEARD GOD speak to me. I was hearing this is it. You have all you need to know to change yourself. You have the tools and I am right here with you to help you. Otherwise this time you risk losing your family. From that moment on I knew this was it!
My relationship with my daughter is 100% better. I stopped reacting with negativity towards her. She has told me herself she cannot get over how much I have changed. My relationship with my husband is so different and he tells me about how different I am and today, we are finally at peace as a family.
Sandra from Boston, Massachusetts
Kim learned how to avoid getting sucked into the “matrix affect” of living off of negative feedback and victimization that goes hand in hand with divorce.
“I am 40 years old with 4 small children: 10, 8, 5, and 3. In November 2008 I was planning a move to another part of the country with my husband of 14 years (a man I have known for 22 years) when the worst thing possible happened – he gave up on our marriage and our family.
I was in shock – I did not realize it at the time. I began to research what I could do since now he lived over 900 miles away from us. This was a man that I did not know how to communicate with anymore – it was very scary for me and the children.
I contacted Larry and when he called me back, that was the start of a new life for me. He was the first person I ever spoke with who could see me for who I am inside and he saw me as a GOOD person. He also knew my husband just like I did and could explain things that I could never put my finger on as to the big picture.
Larry gave me the tools to look at life differently. It was okay to be a human but there was a way not to get sucked into the matrix affect of living off of negative feedback or victimization.
I found a way to look at divorce differently and in doing so I am changing the way people and my children respond to me. I now have friends that I never knew I had – I have a village that has surrounded my family who support me – life is funny and fun!
I have found my friends, many who have PhD’s in human services, using Larry’s tools that I have incorporated into my daily life and motto to explain things to colleagues and children!
My husband and I are still separated for now but someday that will change. The children and I have learned that we still love this person who is so angry with me. We recognize that in each of us shines a beautiful light that we can share with everyone we come in contact with – it starts with me – I am an Environment Changer.”
Kim from Charlotte, North Carolina
Below you’ll find summarized stories from past students who graduated from the Environment Changer program.
To hear their experiences in their own words, click the play button next to the summary for each student…
|Tony from Boston, Massachusetts has been going through a separation since his wife filed for divorce for the past two years. At first, he was skeptical of the program because it was unconventional. His goal was to help himself if he could not save the marriage.Before the program, Tony was very nervous, anxious about his situation and apprehensive. Today, he is calm, secure in who he is, and very much more at ease in his situation. Tony states that he has been amazed at the comments his wife has made to him regarding how calm he is now and how at ease he is. As a result, his wife is now very confused instead of moving “full speed ahead” to end the divorce.Tony from Boston, Massachusetts|
|Bill from Brookfield, Wisconsin learned that he first needed to make a change in himself, before he can positively impact his marriage.Bill from Brookfield, Wisconsin|
|Before Elizabeth began the Environment Changer program, she was filled with worry, anxiety and fear which led to intense pressure in her work and family life.In the past, she tried everything including books, online resources, therapy, talking to friends and family, but nothing helped her ease the incredible amount of stress and pressure she was going through.Elizabeth says she knew she was an important person, but never truly believed it inside. After completing the Environment Changer program, she now feels free from her negative thoughts and feelings. As a result, her relationships are improving and her family sees it. Elizabeth now feels relaxed, less stressed and now loves who she is because she feels better inside.Elizabeth from Long Island, New York|
|Jesse Rivera from Washington used the insights he learned in the Environment Changer program and as a result, his wife has slowed down the process of divorce.Jesse Rivera from Seattle, Washington|
|When Kathy from Clinton, Missouri enrolled in the Environment Changer program, she was in her words, “a complete mess”and all she could think about was the doomsday ahead and what a complete failure she was often ending up in tears crying out to God to fix her marriage.Kathy knew her husband was “acting out”, but she couldn’t understand why. It was hard for her to smile and enjoy the simple things in life. After spending countless hours and dollars on other marriage programs, Kathy still found herself stuck in a hopeless state of mind.Flash forward two months and now Kathy is genuinely happy“from the core of her heart” as she puts it. She feels there is a peace about her and she finally has hope and patience about her circumstances.Kathy reminds herself daily about what is important and no longer lets her thoughts and negative feelings ruin her day. Kathy now has a purpose in her life because she can now control her feelings, attitude, beliefs and actions so that this is not a temporary change, but a permanent change in her lifestyle.Kathy from Clinton, Missouri|
|After 15 years of marriage and a number of obstacles, ranging from financial challenges to marrying his opposite, David and his wife’s differences began to become an obstacle in their marriage.David learned how his childhood programming had impacted his marriage. Before going through the program, his life was a “living hell” as he puts it and he had no controlover his anger and emotions.David now feels calm, safe, secure and valuable.Though he realizes saving a marriage is challenging, David believes it is definitely worth it because he now has a plan in place that is allowing his marriage to heal.(In the recording, David references that he lives in “Perfect Country” while his wife lives in “Fun Country”. David is referencing two of the 4 kinds of people Larry defines in the Flag Page, one of the core tools of the Environment Changer program.) David from Cleveland, Ohio|
|Renee from Orlando, Florida had been dealing with issues for the last 10 years of her 30 year marriage. After trying marriage counseling, Renee and her husband found that it failed on many attempts.After a major crisis, out of fear, Renee moved out of her home for a trial separation. Being skeptical, she read through all of the materials and made the decision to sign up for Larry’s program. Through the teachings of the Environment Changer program, Renee has now found true joy which she believes to be priceless.Renee from Orlando, Florida|
|Nico from Louisiana had experienced one divorce and was on the verge of a second failed marriage. His second marriage was failing for similar reasons for the first, but he could not understand why he kept repeating the same patterns.Nico sought out help from a marriage counselor without his wife for awhile, but nothing seemed to help him get out of the rut he was in.Nico says that Larry introduced him to a whole new perspective on his marriage problems that he never knew existed. Now that he has a deep understanding of what was happening in his marriage, Nico now has complete control over his emotions. The resentment he once felt has now been replaced with love and understanding for what his wife has endured in her childhood and adult life.His self pity has been replaced with a feeling of self confidencein himself and a fresh perspective on life and how to live it well.Nico from New Orleans, Louisiana|
|Married for 13 years, Edith and her husband had come from previous marriages. She brought with her 3 children from her first relationship.Married life had been a rollercoaster of ups and downs for Edith and her husband. Instead of pulling together in crisis, they pulled away from each other for many years to avoid fighting and yelling.After reaching her breaking point, Edith suggested her husband move out of the house and she mentioned divorce. She suspected her husband of having an affair and came to the startling realization that he WAS in fact having an affair – for the past 3 years.Edith’s world as she knew it collapsed; she couldn’t eat or sleep for days, was constantly crying and feeling lonely, lost and overwhelmed with negative thoughts and emotions.After a few weeks of researching marriage, cheating and divorce online, Edith found Larry Bilotta and contacted him because she needed something different.Once she started the plan in the Environment Changer program, Edith began to understand herself.She felt peace inside, she felt calm, positive and hopeful for the future.Edith was finally able to stop dwelling and grinding away on things she can’t control.Edith believes that the Environment Changer program saved her life! Today Edith feels strong, confident and powerful; ready for any challenge. She has her faith in God and feels it is only uphill from here. Though Edith and her husband are still separated, she can feel the environment changing at home and even her kids have noticed a difference.Edith from Monsey, New York|
|Todd now has the ability to control his emotions in not only his marriage, but also his professional life. He intends to now use this new found sense of focus to repair his marriage and give him confidence in his professional life as well.Todd believes this new ability to control his emotions will help him for the rest of his life.Todd from San Jose, California|
“In Less than 6 Weeks I Have Seen Changes in All My Relationships, Especially My Husband Who Has Become Positive and Happier…
My Husband Started Writing Himself Back Into the Equation and Comes Around To Help on the House or Taking Opportunities to Take Care of the Family in Small Ways.”
I started the program Feb 10, 2012. In less than 6 weeks I have seen changes in all my relationships, especially my husband who has become positive, happier and contains a lot more sense of humor without any strategy with words.
The biggest difference is my own attitude and living the principles mapped out in the Environment Changer program. Once I took these ideas to heart, the positive effect was surprising and unexpected.
Our grown daughters started being more aware of their own feelings and my granddaughter (4) is reaping the benefits of a less-stressful house. My husband started writing himself back into the equation (he could make a difference) and comes around to help on the house or taking opportunities to take care of family in small ways.
The program has removed all my doubts that there is a lot more information to learn about living a positively fulfilling life. Understanding the Wave of Success and the intense effect shut down any negative thoughts before they could get a hold in my mind. If you have been affected in any way by anger, contempt, fear, self pity, anxiety or guilt in your life, this program can eliminate and replace these emotions with goodness, joy, love, hope and peace.
“You Hit The Nail On The Head And Woke Me Up To How Blind I’ve Been About What She’s Needed From Me.
I Feel Her Coming Back To Me Slowly, But It Is Happening.”
“I just wanted you to know exactly how right you were about my wife’s personality. You hit the nail on the head and woke me up to how blind I’ve been about what she’s needed from me. I feel her coming back to me slowly but it is happening. I’m doing a lot better in sticking to everything you’ve taught me.
I have far more control of my emotions than I ever have in my whole life because of your program.
I’ve learned a lot more from you but these are the big things. I just wanted to share that with you.”
Baton Rouge, Louisiana
“Your Course Is So Totally In Keeping With What I Already Believe, That I Cannot Change Anyone, But Everyone Is Influenced By The Emotional Condition I’m In.
I’m Able To Live Without All That Anxiety, Intensity And Urgency That Has Stressed Out Me, My Wife And Our Children For So Long.”
“Larry, you know that I’ve always been success and achievement oriented in everything except my marriage. Through your program I realized I must become successful there too, in fact, I should have all along. Your course is so totally in keeping with what I already believe, that I cannot change anyone, but everyone is influenced by the emotional condition I’m in. Through your course, you’ve given me a specific way to do that and now I’m able to live without all that anxiety, intensity and urgency that has stressed out me, my wife and our children for so long.
“What You Teach I’ve Not Seen Taught Anywhere.
For A Guy Like Me With A Short Attention Span, It Needed To Be Simple, Direct And Something I Could Actually Do, Not Just A Bunch Of Theory. Your Program Is All That And So Much More. “
“I must admit that I’ve been in a haze for several years but it finally woke me up when my wife left me for another man. Your course literally made it possible for me to change the course of my life as a husband, as a man, a dad and even my career has taken a more confident turn.
What you teach I’ve not seen taught anywhere. For a guy like me with a short attention span, it needed to be simple, direct and something I could actually do, not just a bunch of theory. Your program is all that and so much more. I think every husband, struggling marriage or not, should take your course.”
“(The Environment Changer Course) Was Simple, Easy To Understand And Very Practical.
Your Environment Changer Course Makes So Much Common sense, I Can Actually Apply It Without Forcing My Wife To Do Anything.“
“As a real estate investor, I’ve always known that I need to stay in tune with what the market is doing, but I didn’t apply that principal to understanding what my own wife of 11 years needed and wanted from me.
I stayed away from the subject because so much of that self help stuff seems created for women. Yours is a man’s course. It was simple, easy to understand and very practical.
Your Environment Changer course makes so much common sense, I can actually apply it without forcing my wife to do anything. Your methods that I’ve adapted make me feel far more in control of where our marriage is going without me trying to control her. So glad I found your course Larry.
The stress relief is well worth it.”
“…Larry’s Course Gave Me The Practical How-To Tools That Made It Possible To Keep Myself Calm Because When I Got Stressed, She Got Stressed And Nothing Improved After That.”
“What I learned from Larry Bilotta’s Environment Changer course made it possible for me to keep my wife in my life. I know without it, I certainly would have lost this very “free spirit” of mine. I needed to understand what motivated her vs. what motivated me and boy were they different!
Most of all, Larry’s course gave me the practical how-to tools that made it possible to keep myself calm because when I got stressed, she got stressed and nothing improved after that. It was some kind of luck that I heard about this course and it came just in time for me to heal my marriage because it really does take one.”
Canyon Country, California
“By The Time I Found Larry Bilotta’s Environment Changer Course, My Wife Had Moved Out.
In Spite Of That, I Learned To Be A Happier, More Upbeat Man With More Confidence That I Could Change The Environment In Myself And Then In The People Around Me.”
“My dad raised me to just work on things and that’s exactly what I did, but I didn’t understand people, especially women. By the time I found Larry Bilotta’s Environment Changer course, my wife had moved out.
In spite of that, I learned to be a happier, more upbeat man with more confidence that I could change the environment in myself and then in the people around me.
My only regret is that I should have found this earlier and avoided all this family stress and hardship, especially on our kids. I know there’s always a way and with a lot of damage in a marriage, that way takes time.”
“I’m Amazed With Everything You’ve Created … From The Flag Page, To All Your Articles On The Internet, To The 2 Greatest Needs Of Men And Women, The Secret Path To Divorce.
I Can See Your Program Is Perfect And It’s The Path To A Happy Life For A Man, And Then A Happy Marriage.”
“I’m amazed with everything you’ve created … from the Flag page, to all your articles on the internet, to the 2 greatest needs of men and women, the secret path to divorce. I can see your program is perfect and it’s the path to a happy life for a man, and then a happy marriage. I hope one day to join you because we need more men doing the right thing for themselves and their wives.”
“Now That I Understand How Eliminate My Negative Feelings In Spite Of Circumstances In My Tough Situation, I Can See That My Wife Is Affected By The Way I Feel.”
“Marrying into a blended family was a shocking surprise for me. I had no idea what stress I was in for because I didn’t understand all that I must face. I should have found your Environment Changer Course long before I needed it.
Now that I understand how to eliminate my negative feelings in spite of circumstances in my tough situation, I can see that my wife is affected by the way I feel. That’s something every man should know. If guys don’t take your course, they will simply create the life their fathers created in their marriages. See Larry, I learned a lot in your course!”
Want to experience these kind of results for yourself? Schedule a private, 60 minute call with Larry Bilotta to see if the Environment Changer program is right for you or enroll in the program here: Men’s Program or Women’s Program